AI Article Synopsis

  • In three studies, researchers found that wanting sex for good reasons, like being closer to your partner, makes people happier in their relationships.
  • On the other hand, wanting sex just to avoid disappointing someone else makes them feel less satisfied.
  • They showed this with both new couples and long-term couples, proving that having the right goals for sex is important for both partners' happiness.

Article Abstract

Across three studies, we demonstrate that pursuing sex for approach goals, such as to enhance intimacy, fuels satisfaction and pursuing sex for avoidance goals, such as to avoid disappointing a partner, detracts from satisfaction. In Study 1, we use hypothetical scenarios to provide experimental support for the associations between sexual goals and sexual and relationship satisfaction. In Study 2, a dyadic daily experience study of dating couples, we demonstrate that daily sexual goals are associated with both partners' daily relationship and sexual satisfaction. In Study 3, a dyadic daily experience study, we replicate the daily associations between sexual goals and satisfaction in a sample of long-term couples, and demonstrate that sexual goals impact partner's relationship and sexual quality 4 months later. In all studies, the associations between sexual goals and enhanced satisfaction as reported by both partners were mediated by sexual desire. Implications for research on sexual motivation and close relationships are discussed.

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http://dx.doi.org/10.1177/0146167213490963DOI Listing

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